I remember when she started coming to our junior high Sunday school class. *Britney was very shy and relied on her sister to answer any questions directed her way. When her sister stopped coming, I was afraid Britney would follow her example.

But she surprised me. Britney had been going through the Bible with a young mom at our church. They had developed a close relationship and Britney was encouraged to continue doing the things that would help her grow as a Christian – read God’s Word, pray, and stay plugged in at church.

It has been beautiful to watch the incredible transformation in Britney’s life. Once painfully shy, she has now made strong friendships with other girls in our class, and volunteers to help when something needs to be done – all because a young mom invested time in growing a relationship with Britney and sowing words of encouragement into her life.

I’m reminded of a man by the name of John Mark. He linked up with his uncle, Barnabas, and Paul on their first missionary journey. It must have been thrilling to travel with these giants of the Christian faith as they spread the gospel in foreign countries.

But somewhere along the way, John Mark got discouraged. After they stopped in Pamphylia, he decided to head home. Whatever John Mark’s reason for going back to Jerusalem, it didn’t sit well with Paul.

There was work to be done. The gospel needed to be preached all over Asia and now the missionary team was one man short. Paul and Barnabas finished the journey without John Mark.

Several weeks later, when it was time to visit the new believers, Barnabas wanted his nephew to join him and Paul. Paul was livid – John Mark had deserted them the first time. What would prevent him from doing so again?

Where Paul spewed sharp criticism, Barnabas offered encouragement. In the end, their missionary efforts were doubled: Paul chose to work with Silas, and Barnabas teamed up with John Mark.

Encouragement was exactly what John Mark needed. The words spoken by his Uncle Barnabas gave him hope. Maybe he could do this missionary stuff after all. He was willing to give it another try. The two became an effective pair as they shared the truth of Christ in Cyprus.

A few words of encouragement made all the difference in the life of John Mark. He was able to move beyond past defeats, pick up where he left off, and be greatly used in the ministry.

Years later, Paul wrote the following words to Barnabas:

Yes, encouragement was life-changing for John Mark. For Britney? She’s built several strong friendships, is a vital part of the youth group, and is considering becoming a missionary.

*name changed for privacy