I love the Lord’s sense of humor. When I began writing my Bible study, Outrageously Fruitful, on the fruit of the Spirit, I had an academic understanding of each of these impressive characteristics. But composing each lesson was intensely personal, and I realized that many times I had tried to produce this fruit in my own strength. How silly! 

It’s called the fruit of the Spirit for a reason. Only by staying connected to the Lord Jesus Christ, can the Holy Spirit enable us to live a life that demonstrates love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and temperance. It’s His fruit.

Moment by moment, as you and I yield to the Heavenly Father’s will, the Holy Spirit can produce these beautiful qualities within us. As they flow out of us, they will catch the attention of a watching world – one that is hungry to know Him.

I can relate. Sometimes we just don’t feel like we fit in – we don’t have anything in common with our co-workers, classmates, or neighbors. Feelings can be deceiving. It’s comforting to know we were created by a God who designed us for relationships.

We were made to have a relationship with God and with others. It’s neat to see this pattern began way back in the Garden of Eden,

In Adam and Eve’s case, they became husband and wife – a family. Friendships are valuable relationships too. Stepping outside of our own world and connecting with others is important.

Whether we’re part of a family unit, a church, or a group with similar interests (art, music, etc.), there’s no denying the value community plays in our lives. Within community, lots of things happen. We can:

Jesus emphasized the importance of our relationship with Him and others:

Love lets us reach out to others without expecting anything in return. It helps us focus on others instead of ourselves. Embrace the relationships you were created for and thrive in your community.